Excerpted from a Dear Abby column, published December 19 2007, here is a list of classic warning signs. If you recognize these signs, you may be involved with an abuser, and should seek assistance.

• Pushes for a quick, exclusive commitment
• Jealous
• Controlling especially regarding money and whereabouts
• Unrealistic expectations
• Isolation from family and friends
• Blames others for problems or mistakes
• Makes others responsible for his/her feelings
• Hypersensitivity
• Cruelty to animals or children
• “Playful” use of force during sex
• Verbal abuse
• Rigid gender roles
• Sudden mood swings
• Past history of battering
• Threats of violence

Not every abuser shows every one of the above signs, but if you are uncomfortable about a relationship for any of the above reasons, you have the right to end it!

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