Haven House, Maryville, Tennessee

When abuser is there:

• Stay out of rooms with no exit.
• Avoid rooms that may have weapons.
• Select a code word that alerts friends and children to call police.
• Leave suitcase and checklist items with a friend.

When abuser has moved out:

• Obtain an order of protection.
• Change locks on doors and windows.
• Insert a peephole in the door.
• Change telephone number, screen calls and block caller ID.
• Install/increase outside lighting.
• Consider getting a dog
• Inform landlord or neighbor of situation, and ask that police be called if abuser is seen around the house.

Technological Precautions

• Use a safer computer
• Create new email/IM accounts
• Change passwords and pin numbers
• Privatize your phone settings
• Consider a new cell phone
• Minimize use of cordless phones/baby monitors

Safety at work

What to do:

• Tell your employer:
• Give security a photo of abuser and order of protection.
• Screen your calls.
• Have an escort to your car or bus.
• Vary your route home.
• Consider a cell phone for your car.
• Carry a noisemaker or personal alarm.

Protecting your children

• Plan and rehearse an escape route with your children.
• If it is safe, teach them a code word to call 911, and how to use a public telephone.
• Let school personnel know to whom children can be released.
• Give school personnel a photo of abuser.
• Warn school personnel not to divulge your address and phone number.

Getting an order of protection

• Call (865) 273-5500 to learn about an order of protection and injunction against harassment.
• Call the Police to get an immediate Order of Protection.
• Keep your order with you at ALL times, and give copies to family, friends, schools, employers and babysitters.

IN AN EMERGENCY - CALL 911 IMMEDIATELY

• Go to an emergency room if you need medical help.
• Take pictures of bruises and injuries.